Friday, October 5, 2012

Chatty Matty, potty fun, tough times hopefully ending


Chatty Matty

Chatty Matty is a pretty funny guy. He's learning words like crazy; he can probably identify a hundred things or more by name (we test this all the time by saying, "Where's the flag? Where's the attic? Where's the basket?" You get the point). I'm constantly amused by how quickly he learns new words, which words he thinks are hilarious, and which words he thinks are different words.

For example, the other day I told someone that I hoped something wouldn't collapse. Matt started clapping. I was so confused. Then I thought, "Oh, right. Claps." Yesterday, I told him he could "go ahead and play with the blocks" and he started hitting himself in the head. I thought, "Huh, must not want to play with blocks." Then later I said he could go ahead and play outside. He started hitting his head again. Yeah, that time I figured it out.

The other thing that's so entertaining to me is how Matthew makes connections between things. For example, he makes a noise with his tongue when he sees a clock, like a clock-ticking noise. He tries to make a buzzing noise when he sees flying insects, or when he's apparently thinking about them (complete with spastic arm motions; I may have accidentally taught him that). Today Matt was playing with a kazoo and making noise through it, so I said, “Hey, play me a song with your kazoo.” Matthew got all excited, ran into the living room, and started using the kazoo to play notes on the piano. That’s one way to play a song with a kazoo, I suppose.

Some words cause Mattoddler to ROFL when he first hears them. It usually lasts a couple days before they just become regular, non-hilarious words, but it's so funny when he falls over laughing at them at first. If you're feeling a little sad, just say these words out loud, and soon you'll be rolling around laughing: pony, ponytail, tickle, mohawk, fauxhawk, zipper, peaches, buzz, kazoo. Hee hee hee. 

The one thing I'm not loving all the time is how Matthew is so very, very talkative. But not only talkative––aggressively talkative. How did we get such a loud guy? It doesn't make sense. I watched some videos of Matt when he was a baby, and, sure enough, he was still making noise all the time. When he says a word, he will keep saying a word until I confirm that I know what he's saying. Which is fine and all, but my goodness, the talking never stops. Must take after Jeff.

Potty fun

We've been having potty fun here this week! One of my friends posted on Facebook that her daughter has been using the potty a lot, and she's only a couple months older than Matt, so I thought, "Hmm, Matthew loves toilets. Maybe he'd like to use his potty now." Success so far! He's good at using it for solids, but I'm not sure he quite understands peeing right now. As much as changing diapers doesn't bother me, having Matthew use the potty is still way better.

In the past, I haven't had any views on potty training, but I've been reading some stuff and thinking about some stuff, and we're pretty much going to continue on with it. It's crazy how in other countries kids are potty trained way, way earlier than in the US, like by a year or 18 months. And that's how it used to be here, I guess, before 1950, when disposable diapers got popular. It makes sense to potty train younger, though, before the headstrong "terrible twos" get started. And one thing that really made sense to me is the comparison between teaching a toddler what's expected at mealtime or in social settings and what's expected for toilet hygiene. But in spite of how much sense it makes for us to be potty training now, I don't really have expectations for Matthew to be totally out of diapers by a certain point. We'll just see how it goes.

Tough times hopefully ending

It's been a challenging two years for me, physically. Here's the rough rundown: 
·      pregnancy (felt pretty good throughout)
·      terrible, terrible postpartum joint pain (and accompanying lack of weight loss)
·      umbilical hernia requiring surgery
·      joint pain subsiding and weight loss beginning as apparent result of stopping breastfeeding
·      working out more, playing roller derby, feeling good again
·      broken ankle requiring surgery
·      rapid weight loss as result of my broken-ankle workout plan (hopping and crawling everywhere)

And now, two full years later, I'm finally starting to feel good again. I'm almost my normal weight, and I can do some amount of exercise without being in terrible pain (though my ankle does still ache quite a bit). It's crazy how much I've taken for granted my formidable physical fitness and health my whole life until I didn't have it anymore. And it's crazy that I've had to have two surgeries this year for bad things that happened as a result of working out. Ugh. I have high hopes that now I can just be my normal self again, but we'll see what God's plans are.

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